"Coming out of the doghouse"

[WhiteCrowUK]

Coming out of the kennel: Telling others you are a werewolf

There will come a time when you want to tell other people about that huge part of your life which is being a werewolf; a time when you want to “come out the kennel”.

The benefits of doing this are many. Think about it for a moment:

After coming out you can openly discuss your feelings with some of your friends. Coming out often reveals that your friends are fine with lycanthropy, and some may even ask you about being turned themselves. Your friends are bound to have questions, so it is best to research the answers. Is it just a full moon thing for you? Are you going to live forever? Is your were form housetrained? It is best to be up on the facts.

When you come out you can put all the secrecy behind you, and start to work on leaving behind any feelings of guilt about being a werewolf you may have. Yes there may be some recriminations at first like "where did Fluffy dissappear to the last full moon", but most people will accept this as just a part of you.

You’ll find it easier to meet other werewolves, and who knows, maybe you already have a friend who’s going through the same things as you are. Coming out could help others find the strength to come out too!

Perhaps most importantly of all, the moment you start to come out, it marks a time of acceptance within yourself: that “Being lycanthropic is awfully terrific!”

Okay, so I’m painting it all a little rose-coloured here, and yes, not everyone will be over the moon about you being a werewolf. Some people will accept you, some will reach for their torches and pitchfork. You may lose a friend (hopefully not by devouring them on a full moon), and it may take some longer to come to terms with your coming out that others. Of course, your parents are another bag altogether...

Do be cautious about who you tell; use your instincts. There’s no rush, so wait if you feel you need to. Some of my friends waited until they left home before coming out to their parents. This has the obvious benefit of you not marking their “territory”, so if things get heated, you can leave them to digest the news, whilst you go out to digest the local livestock.

Read up on lycanthropy before coming out. Be ready for those questions, and get to know yourself more in the process too. Think firstly about how your parents have reacted to werewolves on television and in the media. Think also before telling them how they have handled other issues in your life. Have they always been supportive and understanding? If they are religious, you may need to convince them you are not Satans dark demon spawn? If in serious doubt, don’t come out.

[koben]

im glad i woke up eairly today :D

for both the really stupid question and
the other thing

[perpetual sorrow]

What other thing? scratching yourself in public in places you shouldn't be??? :p

[koben]

yah the scratchie thing :cool:

cause i do it to i think i am more male than i am female at times

[Darth Cluich]

yah the scratchie thing :cool:

cause i do it to i think i am more male than i am female at times


Um...ew...

Either that or you've got fleas. :p

[Zikaur]

yah the scratchie thing :cool:

cause i do it to i think i am more male than i am female at times
hmm, I myself scratch nearly like a dog does behind my ears sometimes, but yeah.. to be honest, I am more male than female and even behave like "one of the guys" sometimes! :P
which really ticks my best friend off as she's a 'fairly' neat girl.

[koben]

*rubs self on Cluich*
there now you have them to :3

[Darth Cluich]

*rubs self on Cluich*
there now you have them to :3

Please don't do that. I could get arrested. :p

[koben]

it not like I did anything bad
but you gots my fleas now XP

[Zikaur]

hmm, I never said I am a true were.. and I also know my body is weird from hormones..
anyway, I'm keeping my judgement neutral till I trully see clear signs of me being a were.. till then, the thought is there for me to experiment with.

[koben]

wow i feel tension angery tension

O.O

*runs and hides*

[Zikaur]

wow i feel tension angery tension

O.O

*runs and hides*
I dont really think from my side, just explaining my thoughts on this and that I'm not as stupid as others may think.. I've seen allot for someone my age and have had some pretty bad problems with which I've had to deal with.. and keeping a thought like being a werewolf in the back of my head enables me to relax a little sometimes and who knows.. maybe I'm a real one after all.. you never know (eventhough I see a few resemblances already)

[perpetual sorrow]

. maybe I'm a real one after all.. you never know (eventhough I see a few resemblances already)
No you're not,I'm sorry to destroy your dreams but it's not possible :mad:

[Darth Cluich]

Everyone can calm down now. The clown's worm food. :D

[WhiteCrowUK]

Everyone can calm down now. The clown's worm food. :D

Trust a newbie not to notice this is posted under humour ... ;)

Still its a good way to flush them out ...

[koben]

I still say they should all drink Drano.
just wondering >.>
<.<
dose that include meh
cause if it does im going to start crying v.v

*coughs* anyway i vote you feed them anti-frezze, drano, and anti-acids mixed together

[West]

I don't want to delete this thread yet, it can lead to some good, funny conversation.

Just stop flaming, and stop making drano jokes. This goes to everyone.

[Hitodama]

Well Zikaur everyone acts like an animal in some way, like my best friend who will remain unnamed, he licked himself like a cat in public. Its just a way of people expressing their desires and insanity in a safe non-harmful way without eating people. (Wow I sound like I know what I'm talking about...I could be a shrink!) Though personally I think the kid went over the edge around age 9. In short, we all do bizarre things at times, its just a matter of keeping them secret! (Scratches behind ear)

[Redwolf_Claw]

*stops licking herself like a cat* Huh? What? *coughs up hairball*

[Darth Cluich]

*stops licking McKitty* Huh? What? *goes back to licking McKitty*

[McKitty]

*stops licking McKitty* Huh? What? *goes back to licking McKitty*

Oh I'm not even going to give that any measure of a response.

...

I hate you :D

[Darth Cluich]

I hate you :D


LIES! You wuv me! :p

[Redwolf_Claw]

Cuz everyone loves CLUICH! http://www.werewolf.com/vb/attachment.php?attac hmentid=2626

[McKitty]

Hate. I'm sending me and all the other Drano Weres after you.

[Louve]

Um...ew...

Either that or you've got fleas. :p


*In high pitch girly-girl voice*...My mummy says that's how the boys think... you know, if they don't scratch their bums not enough blood flows to their head. tee-hee!

:rolleyes:

[celticwomenfudah]

*stops licking McKitty* Huh? What? *goes back to licking McKitty*

Yummy yummy to my tummy. hahahahaha! Ohhhhhh! calmed down for now. I love the first thing. That was great. Ha haaaa! The conversations in here are good too at least I think so.

[celticwomenfudah]

Cuz everyone loves CLUICH! http://www.werewolf.com/vb/attachment.php?attac hmentid=2626

I must admit Cluich your frickin HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!

[Darth Cluich]

I must admit Cluich your frickin HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!

Bah...you just like guys with fingers up their noses. :p

[Necro Mortis]

I must admit Cluich your frickin HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!

Hands off, bitch. He's mine. :p

[Hitodama]

Holy shit...you look like my half brother!

[celticwomenfudah]

Oh well I can look can't I! And only wish................ .................... ......... ahhhhh!

[Darth Cluich]

Oh well I can look can't I! And only wish................ .................... ......... ahhhhh!

Ah...I'm feelin' the love. Or should I say lust? :p

[celticwomenfudah]

Ah...I'm feelin' the love. Or should I say lust? :p

Well Okay you have hit me right on the dot. Yeah I know it's lust but is lust a bad thing?
God your sweet and nice. You gotta love a guy like you.

[Darth Cluich]

Well Okay you have hit me right on the dot. Yeah I know it's lust but is lust a bad thing?
God your sweet and nice. You gotta love a guy like you.

Lust is never a bad thing. ;)

[celticwomenfudah]

Lust is never a bad thing. ;)

Good I was hoping you would say that! ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! yummy!

[Necro Mortis]

Welcome to Weresingles.com where all your dating/flirting needs are fullfilled

[Darth Cluich]

Welcome to Weresingles.com where all your dating/flirting needs are fullfilled


Not all of 'em, unfortunately. ;)

[Redwolf_Claw]

*Snotty Kid voice* Cluich has a girl friend... na nah na nah nah!!

[Darth Cluich]

*Snotty Kid voice* Cluich has a girl friend... na nah na nah nah!!

Shush, you. :p

[Tiamot]

Well Okay you have hit me right on the dot. Yeah I know it's lust but is lust a bad thing?
God your sweet and nice. You gotta love a guy like you.


Obviously you don't know him that well, do you? Dammit Clu, you're at it again! Stop seducing board members with your wit and charm!

[Darth Cluich]

Obviously you don't know him that well, do you? Dammit Clu, you're at it again! Stop seducing board members with your wit and charm!

I can't help it. It just happens. ;)

[Louve]

Welcome to Weresingles.com where all your dating/flirting needs are fullfilled


Agreed...but I'd call it FindCluichAOneNightS tand.org LOL ;)

[Darth Cluich]

Agreed...but I'd call it FindCluichAOneNightS tand.org LOL ;)

Sweet! :D

[celticwomenfudah]

I thought we weren't allowed to use lol in any post. That is if I remember the rule correctly.

[West]

I thought we weren't allowed to use lol in any post. That is if I remember the rule correctly.

You are false. It's posts that only have "lol" in them that Wray and I will delete.


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[celticwomenfudah]

I can't help it. It just happens. ;)

I happen to like your wit and charm and think you should use it as much as you want. Do not listen to the others they are just jealous. But anyways the werewingles.com was amusing. Maybe we should make one one here. *runs away before she gets slapped.* :D

[Necro Mortis]

Maybe we should make one one here. *runs away before she gets slapped.* :D

*slaps you anyway*
Back on topic! There's a thing called PM-ing for suck-uppery and flirting.

[celticwomenfudah]

*slaps you anyway*
Back on topic! There's a thing called PM-ing for suck-uppery and flirting.

Thank you and you missed. Ha ha. Um anyways this coming out of the doghouse thread is hilarious. Never had a better laugh.