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[Moon-Lit Forest]

you may have seen this in a diffrent thread but thats because im a dufas and put it in the wrong one and i dont know how to delete/remove a thread.

so here goes,i have a issue and i think some of you on here might be able to help me out.

to start i believe in aura and being able to have spritual ties with someone. in this meaning litarly feel somone elses pain (if not to the extent to the actual person but a little bit) and know if somthing bad happnes to said person. A lot of times you hear this kind of thing happning with twins, couples that have been married for a realy long time, parent to child, and thats about it. Now somthing i dont know is exactly how thease ties are made and here in lies my problem.

If i dont know how they're made then i dont know how to break them. now i know for a fact i have a tie with multiple people. how? i can feel it. u can call me crazy if you want to but the truth is i have to get rid of thease ties. the people their connected to.... nvmnd. if anyone believes in this like i do maybe you can give me some help in breaking spirtual ties. if you can id be greatly in your debt.

[Kale Sohma]

I know a little bit about connecting to someone, but haven't put much thought onto breaking them. Just dont care? Try to put it all our of your mind and throw it away. Might help.

[Gilenea]

Well, I've heard one theory about how to make these ties, which could have something to do with how to break them. Since you already believe in an aura, we're one step ahead. The theory states that the more time you spend around someone and devote energy towards them (through giving them attention), you "trade" pieces of your auras. So your aura is comprised of pieces of other people's auras and vice versa.

Considering that, it would logically make sense that over time, these fragments of other people's auras begin to deminish and loose strength since they are not replenished. So, you may feel the effects of being "aurally" connected for a while, but over time, those feelings should fade.

It's just one possibility... Hope that helps.

Gil

[AnsharSeraphim]

Empathic or metaphysical connectivity can be established in many many ways, but I would be derelict to fail to mention that there are biochemical precursors to this kind of phenomena as well. Just as many women living in the same house over a long period of time can begin to have menstrual cycles that coincide, your body and brain chemistry have the potential to alter themselves based on proximity. That being said, metaphysical connectivity is about thought form and emotional transference.

Thought form is the waking direction of thought at a subject or idea. If that subject is a person you will send them energy, and their reactions and thoughts will send the same to you. The simplest example of this is a conversation. As you and another person interact you will send currents of energy at one another as you dynamically react. Normally this is a healthy connection. If a person is always trying to gain your energy and is focused entirely on THAT sensation and no other, that balance can be thrown away. The result is emotional and cognitive fatigue, headache, listlessness and more.

In much the same way emotional transference plays it's part. If you constantly direct your emotions at a subject that does not return them (and I'm not referring to just simple unrequited love) once again they can "drain" you.

These types of relationships are examples of pranic transfer, and in extreme cases and extreme individuals this is taken to a new level and is defined as "pranic vampirism". This isn't to say of course that your case is necessarily extreme, or that the people you are interacting with are pranic feeders. It DOES however give you a few guidelines as to how to proceed.

First:
Disassociation. If you are surrounding yourself with people who form unhealthy connections with you, the first obvious thing to do is spend less time around them. If they are a co-worker, a neighbor, or another person you have to see everyday; All you have to do is remove them from your thoughts, stop emotionally investing in them, and avoid worrying about your connection. Focusing time on these activities will only worsen your problem.

Second:
Become Emotionally Bland. If you suspect a person near you is feeding on your emotions or has a volatile emotional connection with you, you can take the sugar out of the water, so to speak. When you're near this person simply keep your emotions subdued. Emotional feeders react to your reactions, and volatile emotional connections are like water looming over a dam, looking for a crack or weak point. Simply withdraw yourself emotionally until you are no longer near that person. That will weaken the connection, and in the case of a feeder, make them look elsewhere.

Third and lastly:
Spend a little time looking up centering, grounding, and breathing techniques online. Finding an inner sense of calm and keeping your energy and mind cleansed will only help your problem.

Please consider the possibility that there are alternative explanations to what you are feeling and consider each carefully. You may not have a "psychic" bond with these people at all, there may be something else going on. The way you are feeling could have a medical basis (in the case you think this "connection" is making you feel exhausted or terrible) or there may be a psychological phenomena going on as well. Always consider all the possibilities in the world around you before you look to the next world for answers.

I hope this answers your question, but in the event it doesn't, feel free to send me a message.

-Anshar

[Moon-Lit Forest]

thank you everyone your awnsers are most helpful.

[stinky_hyena]

you may have seen this in a diffrent thread but thats because im a dufas and put it in the wrong one and i dont know how to delete/remove a thread.

so here goes,i have a issue and i think some of you on here might be able to help me out.

to start i believe in aura and being able to have spritual ties with someone. in this meaning litarly feel somone elses pain (if not to the extent to the actual person but a little bit) and know if somthing bad happnes to said person. A lot of times you hear this kind of thing happning with twins, couples that have been married for a realy long time, parent to child, and thats about it. Now somthing i dont know is exactly how thease ties are made and here in lies my problem.

If i dont know how they're made then i dont know how to break them. now i know for a fact i have a tie with multiple people. how? i can feel it. u can call me crazy if you want to but the truth is i have to get rid of thease ties. the people their connected to.... nvmnd. if anyone believes in this like i do maybe you can give me some help in breaking spirtual ties. if you can id be greatly in your debt.

Did you at some point in time want to be tied to those you believe you're connected with, or do you just happen to be tied and aware of it without say in the matter for or against connection?

[Moon-Lit Forest]

just happen to be tied and aware of it without say in the matter for or against the connection.

[Noka_vex_lupus]

I believe that sensing other's feelings is called being an empath. I know what you mean about being connected to people. My best friend and I hung out so much that we vaguely know what the other was feeling at certain points during the day and we would blurt out random thoughts only to find that what you just said was what the other was thinking about. It used to happen a lot but because of many problems in her life and me going to a different school, we began to see eachother less and less and finally, the bond is so weak, its barely there. So if you can figure out who the people are that you are connected to, I suggest you keep some distance if possible.